possible to persuade so into more? Luv my so. He is just too vanilla for me. Is there a nice way to convince him to be more assertive and outgoing? I want him to be open to anything new... tying up, public places, biting, etc. He wont even cum on my body/face. How do you talk someone into this. My past partners were not so conservative, I need help! my kink is not getting satisfied.

Not sure what to tell you honey My SO is very very vanilla and will not have anything to do with my kinks.... One does what one needs to do.

Oh, come on, Jeep. Not every neg is for your cheating.... maybe it was because you just told her it couldn't happen, and someone disagreed with that viewpoint, that's all. Or because she asked for advice and all you said was that you didn't have any (in which case, why post?). Don't take it all so personally. (And no, it wasn't from me.)

LOL....I didnt take it that way baby.... serious....

Oh, OK. I thought that was what you meant by people not being "open minded." But isn't it more open-minded to help her find solutions, rather than telling her that a 21-year old guy can't change? I think he can, ahem, "grow."

Gotha back Jeep.. WTF??? If the guy is not Into it... You will not change him. How old is the fucker anyhow??????

Well he is still a pup:) Paper train him:)

Oh my God....he's still shitting his pants! How old are you?

x also

hey i take that offensively . . .

Which part Reb? Hiya:)

that x year olds are still infants

Some were never x... And never take That personally..... I could never talk to folk my own age.. Now I just think I don't like assholes :) Figuratively speaking of course:)

Fact is bro......they are....havent seen shit yet and act like they know everything....

:) Silly buggers.. There were always these Movies about going back to when you were x.. I am like.. OH HELL NO.... Shoot me first... "Yes I would like to be first behind yon paint shed" :)

jeep look in my profile for my age

Do I care? Nope

What the hell Windy? Whack that fucker on the Side of his head with a rolled up newspaper....?? And then send me pictures:) Also we are running dangerously low on Beaver Brand Hot Russian Mustard... Hee hee hee..

I've changed in my tastes and habits though and at my advanced age... ;) Just took the right sales pitch.

Yes Yes :)b Truth in advertising:) Eat beef! Swallow that goldfish:) Oh fuck... I have lost it:) Sorry I suck at human relations.. I believe that was Your Porn Eagle Position.. I was "Moral officer" and something else.. Bouncer I think :) Figures:)

Porn Eagle has a Moral Officer? Must be a pretty easy job! lol But yes, we do need a good bouncer, and I can think of none better than you. ;)

Ooops:) Freudian slip:) Never Could spell worth a damn.. Thanx Sweetie:)

You should have him register for an account on the kinkfo.

i read this heading as "you should shave him"

Yeah.. Then I can talk to him for a little:) Hee hee hee.. Bring it on :) Hiya Beauty :)

Hiya Gunnr *kisses*

so Gunnr... I am a very vanilla man, and my wife is asking to do more kink, but I just don't feel up to it, or that it is right.... how can you help me...? ;)

Oh I know YOUR ploy:) Sure Gunnr, come Over and then you invite the helicopters to hover.. I end up going crazy, asking where the hell the Godamn Camo paint is, stripping my clothes off and crawling though the marine plants.... Is that it? :P

well, that is one of a few potential scenarios I was playing with.... although mine actually ended up with you getting caught as a POW and me being your interrogator....